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作者:乔丹?彼得森    更新:2024-03-23 23:49
  引言 如何抵御自我的不足与无知

  1. Solzhenitsyn, A. I. (1975). The Gulag Archipelago 1918-1956: An experiment in literary investigation(Vol. 2). (T. P. Whitney, Trans.). New York: Harper & Row, p. 626.

  法则一 获胜的龙虾从不低头:笔直站立,昂首挺胸


  1. 如果你想认真研究龙虾,可以从这里开始:Corson, T. (2005). The secret life of lobsters: How fishermen and scientists are unraveling the mysteries of our favorite crustacean. New York: Harper Perennial。


  2. Schjelderup-Ebbe, & T. (1935). Social behavior of birds. Clark University Press; see also Price, J. S., & Sloman, L. (1987). “Depression as yielding behavior: An animal model based on Schjelderup-Ebbe's pecking order.” Ethology and Sociobiology, 8, 85-98.

  3. Sapolsky, R. M. (2004). “Social status and health in humans and other animals.” Annual Review of Anthropology, 33, 393-418.

  4. Rutishauser, R. L., Basu, A. C., Cromarty, S. I., & Kravitz, E. A. (2004). “Long-term consequences of agonistic interactions between socially naive juvenile American lobsters.” The Biological Bulletin, 207, 183-7.

  5. Kravitz, E. A. (2000). “Serotonin and aggression: Insights gained from a lobster model system and speculations on the role of amine neurons in a complex behavior.” Journal of Comparative Physiology, 186, 221-238.

  6. Huber, R., & Kravitz, E. A. (1995). “A quantitative analysis of agonistic behavior in juvenile American lobsters.” Brain, Behavior and Evolution, 46, 72-83.

  7. Yeh S-R, Fricke RA, Edwards DH (1996). “The effect of social experience on serotonergic modulation of the escape circuit of crayfish.” Science, 271, 366-369.

  8. Huber, R., Smith, K., Delago, A., Isaksson, K., & Kravitz, E. A. (1997). “Serotonin and aggressive motivation in crustaceans: Altering the decision to retreat.” Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America, 94, 5939-42.

  9. Antonsen, B. L., & Paul, D. H. (1997). “Serotonin and octopamine elicit stereotypical agonistic behaviors in the squat lobster Munida quadrispina(Anomura, Galatheidae).” Journal of Comparative Physiology A: Sensory, Neural, and Behavioral Physiology, 181, 501-510.

  10. Credit Suisse (2015, Oct). Global Wealth Report 2015, p. 11.

  11. Fenner, T., Levene, M., & Loizou, G. (2010). “Predicting the long tail of book sales: Unearthing the power-law exponent.” Physica A: Statistical Mechanics and Its Applications, 389, 2416-2421.

  12. Derek J. de Solla Price, D. J. (1963). Little science, big science. New York: Columbia University Press.

  13. 由这两位研究者进行了理论化:Wolff, J. O. & Peterson, J. A. (1998). “An-offspring-defense hypothesis for territoriality in female mammals.” Ethology, Ecology & Evolution, 10, 227-239;由这些作者将理论延伸到了甲壳类动物上:Figler, M.H., Blank, G.S. & Peek, H.V.S (2001). “Maternal territoriality as an offspring defense strategy in red swamp crayfish (Procambarus clarkii, Girard).”Aggressive Behavior, 27, 391-403。


  14. Waal, F. B. M. de (2007). Chimpanzee politics: Power and sex among apes. Baltimore, MD: Johns Hopkins University Press; Waal, F. B. M. de (1996). Good natured: The origins of right and wrong in humans and other animals. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press.

  15. Bracken-Grissom, H. D., Ahyong, S. T., Wilkinson, R. D., Feldmann, R. M., Schweitzer, C. E., Breinholt, J. W., Crandall, K. A. (2014). “The emergence of lobsters: Phylogenetic relationships, morphological evolution and divergence time comparisons of an ancient group.” Systematic Biology, 63, 457-479.

  16. 一份简要的总结:Ziomkiewicz-Wichary, A. (2016). “Serotonin and dominance.” In T. K. Shackelford & V. A. Weekes-Shackelford (Eds.). Encyclopedia of evolutionary psychological science, DOI 10.1007/978-3-319-16999-6_1440-1。


  17. Janicke, T., Häderer, I. K., Lajeunesse, M. J., & Anthes, N. (2016). “Darwinian sex roles confirmed across the animal kingdom.” Science Advances, 2, e1500983.

  18. Steenland, K., Hu, S., & Walker, J. (2004). “All-cause and cause-specific mortality by socioeconomic status among employed persons in 27 US states, 1984-1997.” American Journal of Public Health, 94, 1037-1042.

  19. Crockett, M. J., Clark, L., Tabibnia, G., Lieberman, M. D., & Robbins, T. W. (2008). “Serotonin modulates behavioral reactions to unfairness.” Science, 320, 1739.

  20. McEwen, B. (2000). “Allostasis and allostatic load implications for neuropsy-chopharmacology.” Neuropsychopharmacology, 22, 108-124.

  21. Salzer, H. M. (1966). “Relative hypoglycemia as a cause of neuropsychiatric illness.” Journal of the National Medical Association, 58, 12-17.

  22. Peterson J. B., Pihl, R. O., Gianoulakis, C., Conrod, P., Finn, P. R., Stewart, S. H., LeMarquand, D. G. Bruce, K. R. (1996). “Ethanol-induced change in cardiac and endogenous opiate function and risk for alcoholism.” Alcoholism: Clinical & Experimental Research, 20, 1542-1552.

  23. Pynoos, R. S., Steinberg, A. M., & Piacentini, J. C. (1999). “A developmental psychopathology model of childhood traumatic stress and intersection with anxiety disorders.” Biological Psychiatry, 46, 1542-1554.

  24. Olweus, D. (1993). Bullying at school: What we know and what we can do. New York: Wiley-Blackwell.

  25. Ibid.

  26. Janoff-Bulman, R. (1992). Shattered assumptions: Towards a new psychology of trauma. New York: The Free Press.

  27. Weisfeld, G. E., & Beresford, J. M. (1982). “Erectness of posture as an indicator of dominance or success in humans.” Motivation and Emotion, 6, 113-131.

  28. Kleinke, C. L., Peterson, T. R., & Rutledge, T. R. (1998). “Effects of self-generated facial expressions on mood.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 74, 272-279.

  法则二 像照顾生病的宠物一样关心自己:待己如助人


  1. Tamblyn, R., Tewodros, E., Huang, A., Winslade, N. & Doran, P. (2014). “The incidence and determinants of primary nonadherence with prescribed medication in primary care: a cohort study.” Annals of Internal Medicine, 160, 441-450.

  2. 我在这本书里有更详细的描述:Peterson, J. B. (1999)Maps of meaning: The architecture of belief. New York: Routledge。


  3. Van Strien, J. W., Franken, I. H. A. & Huijding, J. (2014). “Testing the snake-detection hypothesis: Larger early posterior negativity in humans to pictures of snakes than to pictures of other reptiles, spiders and slugs.”Frontiers in Human Neuroscience, 8, 691-697. 在这里可以看到更为概括的讨论:Ledoux, J. (1998). The emotional brain: The mysterious underpinnings of emotional life. New York: Simon & Schuster。


  4. 对于这个问题的经典论述:Gibson, J. J. (1986). An ecological approach to visual perception. New York: Psychology Press。同时还有Floel, A., Ellger, T., Breitenstein, C. & Knecht, S. (2003). “Language perception activates the hand motor cortex: implications for motor theories of speech perception.”European Journal of Neuroscience, 18, 704-708。这些研究更概括地讨论了行为和感知之间的关系:Pulvermüller, F., Moseley, R. L., Egorova, N., Shebani, Z. & Boulenger, V. (2014). “Motor cognition–motor semantics: Action perception theory of cognition and communication.”Neuropsychologia, 55, 71-84。


  5. Flöel, A., Ellger, T., Breitenstein, C. & Knecht, S. (2003). “Language perception activates the hand motor cortex: Implications for motor theories of speech perception.” European Journal of Neuroscience, 18, 704-708; Fadiga, L., Craighero, L. & Olivier, E (2005). “Human motor cortex excitability during the perception of others' action.” Current Opinions in Neurobiology, 15, 213-218; Palmer, C. E., Bunday, K. L., Davare, M. & Kilner, J. M. (2016). “A causal role for primary motor cortex in perception of observed actions.” Journal of Cognitive Neuroscience, 28, 2021-2029.

  6. Barrett, J. L. (2004). Why would anyone believe in God?Lanham, MD: Altamira Press.

  7. 这是一篇不错的评论:Barrett, J. L. & Johnson, A. H. (2003). “The role of control in attributing intentional agency to inanimate objects.”Journal of Cognition and Culture, 3, 208-217。


  8. 对于这个问题我也非常推荐荣格最出色的学生和同事的书:Neumann, E. (1955). The Great Mother: An analysis of the archetype. Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press。


  9. Muller, M. N., Kalhenberg, S. M., Thompson, M. E. & Wrangham, R. W. (2007). “Male coercion and the costs of promiscuous mating for female chimpanzees.”Proceedings of the Royal Society (B), 274, 1009-1014.

  10. 这里有OKCupid约会网站上一系列有趣的数据统计:Rudder, C. (2015). Dataclysm: Love, sex, race & identity. New York: Broadway Books。在这样的网站上,绝大多数感兴趣的咨询只围绕一小部分用户展开,这也是帕累托分布的一个例子。


  11. Wilder, J. A., Mobasher, Z. & Hammer, M. F. (2004). “Genetic evidence for unequal effective population sizes of human females and males.” Molecular Biology and Evolution, 21, 2047-2057.

  12. Miller, G. (2001). The mating mind: How sexual choice shaped the evolution of human nature. New York: Anchor.

  13. Pettis, J. B. (2010). “Androgyny BT.” In D. A. Leeming, K. Madden, & S. Marlan (Eds.). Encyclopedia of psychology and religion(pp. 35-36). Boston, MA: Springer US.

  14. Goldberg, E. (2003). The executive brain: Frontal lobes and the civilized mind. New York: Oxford University Press.

  15. 对此的经典研究:Campbell, D. T. & Fiske, D. W. (1959). “Convergent and discriminant validation by the multitrait-multimethod matrix.”Psychological Bulletin, 56, 81-105。类似观点也出现在这里:Wilson, E. O. (1998). Consilience: The unity of knowledge. New York: Knopf。


  16. Headland, T. N., & Greene, H. W. (2011). “Hunter-gatherers and other primates as prey, predators, and competitors of snakes.” Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences USA, 108, 1470-1474.

  17. Keeley, L. H. (1996). War before civilization: The myth of the peaceful savage. New York: Oxford University Press.

  18. “我逐渐发现善与恶的界线并不在国家与国家之间、阶级与阶级之间、政党与政党之间,——而是在每一个人的心中,在一切人的心中穿过。这条线在移动,它随着岁月的流逝而摆动;连被恶占据了的心中也保持着一小块善的阵地。连在最善的心中仍保留着一个……尚未铲除的恶的角落。自那以后我终于懂得了世间一切宗教的真谛:它们是与存在于(每一个)人内心的恶做斗争的。世界上的恶不可能除尽,但每个人心中的恶却可以束缚。”Solzhenitsyn, A.I. (1975). The Gulag Archipelago 1918-1956: An experiment in literary investigation(Vol. 2). (T.P. Whitney, Trans.). New York: Harper & Row, p.615。


  19. 针对这个问题我看过的最棒的探讨是1955年由泰利·茨威戈夫(Terry Zwigoff)导演的纪录片《克鲁伯》(Crumb)。这部纪录片是关于地下卡通画家罗伯特·克鲁伯(Robert Crumb)的,它充分展现了怨恨、欺骗、傲慢、对人类的仇恨、羞耻、贪婪的母亲和残暴的父亲等话题。


  20. Bill, V. T. (1986). Chekhov: The silent voice of freedom. Allied Books, Ltd.

  21. Costa, P. T., Teracciano, A. & McCrae, R. R. (2001). “Gender differences in personality traits across cultures: robust and surprising findings.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 81, 322-331.

  22. Isbell, L. (2011). The fruit, the tree and the serpent: Why we see so well. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press; see also Hayakawa, S., Kawai, N., Masataka, N., Luebker, A., Tomaiuolo, F., & Caramazza, A. (2011). “The influence of color on snake detection in visual search in human children.” Scientific Reports, 1, 1-4.

  23. Osorio, D., Smith, A. C., Vorobyev, M. & Buchanan-Smieth, H. M. (2004). “Detection of fruit and the selection of primate visual pigments for color vision.”The American Naturalist, 164, 696-708.

  24. Macrae, N. (1992). John von Neumann: The scientific genius who pioneered the modern computer, game theory, nuclear deterrence, and much more. New York: Pantheon Books.

  25. Wittman, A. B., & Wall, L. L. (2007). “The evolutionary origins of obstructed labor: bipedalism, encephalization, and the human obstetric dilemma.” Obstetrical & Gynecological Survey, 62, 739-748.

  26. 其他的解释也是存在的: Dunsworth, H. M., Warrener, A. G., Deacon, T., Ellison, P. T., & Pontzer, H. (2012). “Metabolic hypothesis for human altriciality.”Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America, 109, 15212-15216。


  27. Heidel, A. (1963). The Babylonian Genesis: The story of the creation. Chicago: University of Chicago Press.

  28. Salisbury, J. E. (1997). Perpetua's passion: The death and memory of a young Roman woman. New York: Routledge.

  29. Pinker, S. (2011). The better angels of our nature: Why violence has declined. New York: Viking Books.

  30. Nietzsche, F. W. & Kaufmann, W. A. (1982). The portable Nietzsche. New York: Penguin Classics (Maxims and Arrows 12).

  法则三 放弃损友:与真心希望你好的人做朋友


  1. Peterson, J. B. (1999). Maps of meaning: The architecture of belief. New York: Routledge, p. 264.

  2. Barrick, M. R., Stewart, G. L., Neubert, M. J., and Mount, M. K. (1998). “Relating member ability and personality to work-team processes and team effectiveness.”Journal of Applied Psychology, 83, 377-391。对此关于儿童的相关研究,参见:Dishion, T.J., McCord, J., & Poulin, F. (1999). “When interventions harm: Peer groups and problem behavior.”American Psychologist, 54, 755-764。


  3. McCord, J. & McCord, W. (1959). “A follow-up report on the Cambridge-Somerville youth study.” Annals of the American Academy of Political and Social Science, 32, 89-96.

  4. 罗杰斯描述了人格的建设性改变所需要的6个条件,其中第2个是来访者的“不一致状态”,大致可以理解为一个人意识到问题的存在和改变的必要性。参考:Rogers, C. R. (1957). “The necessary and sufficient conditions of therapeutic personality change.”Journal of Consulting Psychology, 21, 95-103。


  法则四 战胜内心的批评家:和昨天的自己比,别和今天的别人比


  1. Poffenberger, A. T. (1930). “The development of men of science.” Journal of Social Psychology, 1, 31-47.

  2. Taylor, S. E. & Brown, J. (1988). “Illusion and well-being: A social psychological perspective on mental health.” Psychological Bulletin, 103, 193-210.

  3. sin这个词来自希腊语ἁμαρτάνειν(hamartánein),意思是“错过目标”、“判断失误”或“致命的缺陷”。


  4. 参见:Gibson, J. J. (1979). The ecological approach to visual perception. Boston: Houghton Mifflin。


  5. Simons, D. J., & Chabris, C. F. (1999). “Gorillas in our midst: Sustained inattentional blindness for dynamic events.” Perception, 28, 1059-1074.

  6. Azzopardi, P. & Cowey, A. (1993). “Preferential representation of the fovea in the primary visual cortex.” Nature, 361, 719-721.

  法则五 管教你家的小怪物:别让孩子做出令你讨厌他的事

  1. Moore, L. T., McEvoy, B., Cape, E., Simms, K., & Bradley, D. G. (2006). “A Y-chromosome signature of hegemony in Gaelic Ireland.” American Journal of Human Genetics, 78, 334-338.

  2. Jones, E. (1953). The life and work of Sigmund Freud(Vol. I). New York: Basic Books. p. 5.

  3. 这里有充分的评估:Roberts, B. W., & Mroczek, D. (2008). “Personality trait change in adulthood.”Current Directions in Psychological Science, 17, 31-35。


  4. 这里有对这个问题充分、可靠、基于实证研究的探讨:Olweus, D. (1993). Bullying at school: What we know and what we can do. Malden, MA: Blackwell Publishing。


  5. Goodall, J. (1990). Through a window: My thirty years with the chimpanzees of Gombe. Boston: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt.

  6. Finch, G. (1943). “The bodily strength of chimpanzees.” Journal of Mammalogy, 24, 224-228.

  7. Goodall, J. (1972). In the shadow of man. New York: Dell.

  8. Wilson, M. L. et al. (2014). “Lethal aggression in Pan is better explained by adaptive strategies than human impacts.” Nature, 513, 414-417.

  9. Goodall, J. (1990). Through a window: My thirty years with the chimpanzees of Gombe. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, pp. 128-129.

  10. United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (2013). Global study on homicide

  11. Thomas, E. M. (1959). The harmless people. New York: Knopf.

  12. Roser, M. (2016). Ethnographic and archaeological evidence on violent deaths

  13. Ibid; also Brown, A. (2000). The Darwin wars: The scientific battle for the soul of man. New York: Pocket Books.

  14. Keeley, L. H. (1997). War before civilization: The myth of the peaceful savage. Oxford University Press, USA.

  15. Carson, S. H., Peterson, J. B. & Higgins, D. M. (2005). “Reliability, validity and factor structure of the Creative Achievement Questionnaire.” Creativity Research Journal, 17, 37-50.

  16. Stokes, P. D. (2005). Creativity from constraints: The psychology of breakthrough. New York: Springer.

  17. Wrangham, R. W., & Peterson, D. (1996). Demonic males: Apes and the origins of human violence. New York: Houghton Mifflin.

  18. Peterson, J. B. & Flanders, J. (2005). Play and the regulation of aggression. In Tremblay, R. E., Hartup, W. H. & Archer, J. (Eds.). Developmental origins of aggression. (pp. 133-157). New York: Guilford Press; Nagin, D., & Tremblay, R. E. (1999). “Trajectories of boys' physical aggression, opposition, and hyperactivity on the path to physically violent and non-violent juvenile delinquency.” Child Development, 70, 1181-1196.

  19. Sullivan, M. W. (2003). “Emotional expression of young infants and children.”Infants and Young Children, 16, 120-142.

  20. Glines, C. B. (2005). “Top secret World War II bat and bird bomber program.”Aviation History, 15, 38-44.

  21. Flasher, J. (1978). “Adultism.” Adolescence, 13, 517-523; Fletcher, A. (2013). Ending discrimination against young people. Olympia, WA: CommonAction Publishing.

  22. de Waal, F. (1998). Chimpanzee politics: Power and sex among apes. Baltimore: Johns Hopkins University Press.

  23. Panksepp, J. (1998). Affective neuroscience: The foundations of human and animal emotions. New York: Oxford University Press.

  24. Tremblay, R. E., Nagin, D. S., Séguin, J. R., Zoccolillo, M., Zelazo, P. D., Boivin, M., Japel, C. (2004). “Physical aggression during early childhood: trajectories and predictors.” Pediatrics, 114, 43-50.

  25. Krein, S. F., & Beller, A. H. (1988). “Educational attainment of children from single-parent families: Differences by exposure, gender, and race.” Demography, 25, 221; McLoyd, V. C. (1998). “Socioeconomic disadvantage and child development.” The American Psychologist, 53, 185-204; Lin, Y-C., & Seo, D-C. (2017). “Cumulative family risks across income levels predict deterioration of children's general health during childhood and adolescence.” PLOS ONE, 12(5), e0177531. Amato, P. R., & Keith, B. (1991). “Parental divorce and the well-being of children: A meta-analysis.” Psychological Bulletin, 110, 26-46.

  法则六 当痛苦到想诅咒一切:批判世界之前先清理你的房间


  1. Goethe, J. W. (1979). Faust, part two(P. Wayne, Trans.). London: Penguin Books. p. 270.

  2. Goethe, J. W. (1979). Faust, part one(P. Wayne, Trans.). London: Penguin Books. p. 75.

  3. Tolstoy, L. (1887-1983). Confessions(D. Patterson, Trans.). New York: W. W. Norton, pp. 57-58.

  4. The Guardian(2016, June 14). 1000 mass shootings in 1260 days: this is what America's gun crisis looks like

  5. Cited in Kaufmann, W. (1975). Existentialism from Dostoevsky to Sartre. New York: Meridian, pp. 130-131.

  法则七 苏格拉底的选择:追求意义,拒绝苟且

  1. Piaget, J. (1932). The moral judgement of the child. London: Kegan Paul, Trench, Trubner and Company; see also Piaget, J. (1962). Play, dreams and imitation in childhood. New York: W.W. Norton and Company.

  2. Franklin, B. (1916). Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin. Rahway, New Jersey: The Quinn & Boden Company Press

  3. Jung, C. G. (1969). Aion: Researches into the phenomenology of the self(Vol. 9: Part II, Collected Works of C. G. Jung): Princeton, N. J.: Princeton University Press. (chapter 5).

  4. Schapiro, J. A., Glynn, S. M., Foy, D. W. & Yavorsky, M. A. (2002). “Participation in war-zone atrocities and trait dissociation among Vietnam veterans with combat-related PTSD.” Journal of Trauma and Dissociation, 3, 107-114; Yehuda, R., Southwick, S. M. & Giller, E. L. (1992). “Exposure to atrocities and severity of chronic PTSD in Vietnam combat veterans.” American Journal of Psychiatry, 149, 333-336.

  5. Harpur, T. (2004). The pagan Christ: recovering the lost light. Thomas Allen Publishers. Peterson, J. B. (1999). Maps of meaning: The architecture of belief. New York: Routledge.

  6. Lao-Tse (1984). The tao te ching. (1984) (S. Rosenthal, Trans.). Verse 64: Staying with the mystery.

  7. Jung, C. G. (1969). Aion: Researches into the phenomenology of the self(Vol. 9: Part II, Collected Works of C. G. Jung): Princeton, N. J.: Princeton University Press.

  8. Dobbs, B. J. T. (2008). The foundations of Newton's alchemy. New York: Cambridge University Press.

  9. Nietzsche, F. (1974). The gay science(Kaufmann, W., Trans.). New York: Vintage, pp. 181-182.

  10. Nietzsche, F. (1968). The will to power(Kaufmann, W., Trans.). New York: Vintage, p. 343.

  11. Dostoevsky, F. M. (2009). The grand inquisitor. Merchant Books.

  法则八 不买醉鬼卖的东西:说真话,或者至少别撒谎

  1. 这在这本书里有详细探讨:Peterson, J. B. (1999). Maps of meaning: the architecture of belief. New York: Routledge。


  2. Adler, A. (1973). “Life-lie and responsibility in neurosis and psychosis: a contribution to melancholia.” In P. Radin (Trans.). The practice and theory of Individual Psychology. Totawa, N. J.: Littlefield, Adams & Company.

  3. 这在这本书里有详细探讨:Peterson, J. B. (1999). Maps of meaning: The architecture of belief. New York: Routledge。


  4. Hitler, A. (1925/2017). Mein kampf(M. Roberto, Trans.). Independently Published, pp. 172-173.

  法则九 别偷走来访者的问题:假设你聆听的人知道你不知道的事

  1. Finkelhor, D., Hotaling, G., Lewis, I. A. & Smith, C. (1990). “Sexual abuse in a national survey of adult men and women: prevalence, characteristics, and risk factors.” Child Abuse & Neglect, 14, 19-28.

  2. Rind, B., Tromovitch, P. & Bauserman, R. (1998). “A meta-analytic examination of assumed properties of child sexual abuse using college samples.” Psychological Bulletin, 124, 22-53.

  3. Loftus, E. F. (1997). “Creating false memories.”Scientific American, 277, 70-75.

  4. Rogers, C. R. (1952). “Communication: its blocking and its facilitation.” ETC: A Review of General Semantics, 9, 83-88.

  法则十 不要无视地毯下的龙:直面问题,言辞精确


  1. Gibson, J. J. (1986). An ecological approach to visual perception. New York: Psychology Press, for the classic treatise on this issue。对语言和行动之间关系的探讨也可参见Floel, A., Ellger, T., Breitenstein, C. & Knecht, S. (2003)。“Language perception activates the hand motor cortex: implications for motor theories of speech perception.” European Journal of Neuroscience, 18, 704-708。更概括的对行为和感知之间关系的讨论可参见Pulvermüller, F., Moseley, R. L., Egorova, N., Shebani, Z. & Boulenger, V. (2014). “Motor cognition-motor semantics: Action perception theory of cognition and communication.” Neuropsychologia, 55, 71-84。


  2. Cardinali, L., Frassinetti, F., Brozzoli, C., Urquizar, C., Roy, A. C. & Farnè, A. (2009). “Tool-use induces morphological updating of the body schema.”Current Biology, 12, 478-479.

  3. Bernhardt, P. C., Dabbs, J. M. Jr., Fielden, J. A. & Lutter, C. D. (1998). “Testosterone changes during vicarious experiences of winning and losing among fans at sporting events.” Physiology & Behavior, 65, 59-62.

  4. 这个问题一部分在以下文献中有详述:Gray, J. & McNaughton, N. (2003). The neuropsychology of anxiety: An enquiry into the functions of the septal-hippocampal system. Oxford: Oxford University Press。也可以参考Peterson, J. B. (2013). “Three forms of meaning and the management of complexity.”In T. Proulx, K. D. Markman & M. J. Lindberg (Eds.)。The psychology of meaning(pp. 17-48). Washington, D. C.: American Psychological Association; Peterson, J. B. & Flanders, J. L. (2002). “Complexity management theory: Motivation for ideological rigidity and social conflict.”Cortex, 38, 429-458。


  法则十一 不要打扰玩滑板的孩子们:承认现实,反对偏见


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  5. “地球得了癌症,人类就是癌细胞。” Mesarović, M. D. & Pestel, E. (1974). Mankind at the turning point. New York: Dutton, p. 1。这个提法最早出现于Gregg, A. (1955). “A medical aspect of the population problem.” Science, 121, 681-682, p. 681. Hern, W. M. (1993)。“Has the human species become a cancer on the planet? A theoretical view of population growth as a sign of pathology.” Current World Leaders, 36, 1089-1124. From the Club of Rome's King, A. & Schneider, B. (1991)。The first global revolution. New York: Pantheon Books, p. 75:“人类的共同敌人就是人本身。为了用新的敌人来团结彼此,我们想出了污染、全球变暖、水资源匮乏、饥荒等类似问题。所有这些危机都是由人类行为引起的,只有改变了态度和行为之后危机才能被解除。所以真正的敌人是人本身。”


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  11. 可以参见:Hango. D. (2015). “Gender differences in science, technology, engineering, mathematics and computer science (STEM) programs at university.”Statistics Canada, 75-006-X。


  12. 不止我一个人有这样的感觉。可以参见:Hymowitz, K. S. (2012). Manning up: How the rise of women has turned men into boys. New York: Basic Books。


  13. Jaffe, A., Chediak, G., Douglas, E., Tudor, M., Gordon, R. W., Ricca, L. & Robinson, S. (2016)“Retaining and advancing women in national law firms.”Stanford Law and Policy Lab, White Paper

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  16. 这个问题在这里有很好的探讨:Suh, G. W., Fabricious, W. V., Parke, R. D., Cookston, J. T., Braver, S. L. & Saenz, D. S. “Effects of the interparental relationship on adolescents' emotional security and adjustment: The important role of fathers.”Developmental Psychology, 52, 1666-1678。


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  23. 经济合作与发展组织(OECD)通过回顾统计数据,发现女性在教育上比男性更有优势,女性在健康护理行业占比过高,然后批判了男性在计算机科学中的优势地位。


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  法则十二 当你在街上遇到一只猫时,摸摸它:关注存在的善

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  4. 用微波炉将墨西哥卷饼加热到连上帝都嫌烫的能力(as Homer asks, in Weekend at Burnsie's[episode 16, season 13, The Simpsons])。


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  结语 我应该用照明笔写什么


  1. Peterson, J. B. (2006). Peacemaking among higher-order primates. In Fitzduff, M. & Stout, C.E. (Eds.). The psychology of resolving global conflicts: From war to peace. In Volume III, Interventions(pp.33-40). New York: Praeger.

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  3. Lao-Tse (1984). The tao te ching. (1984) (S. Rosenthal, Trans.). Verse 33: Without force: without perishing.

  4. 举个例子,博扬·斯洛特(Boyan Slaat)这个了不起而又勇敢的荷兰青年虽然只有20出头,但却开发出了能够处理这个问题的商业技术,并将其应用在了世界五大洋。这才是真正的研究环境问题的专家。


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